She called me apologizing for not being there for me, and not living up to her role as “room parent”. She talked about how she had ambitions in September and after 9 months realizes that she over extended herself. I like her, and I know she has a full life. She works, is a dedicated mom, she is a room parent (to two rooms, mind you), her husband travels, and she’s a good friend.
No need to apologize friend. You are doing the best you can. Don’t compare yourself to me… I may look in your eyes as having it together, but I feel the same way. We all see the world and others through our filters.
We are all doing the best that we can. Don’t let this low moment stop you from your big heart. You volunteered not because you thought you were going to change the world, but because you wanted to help. Pat yourself on the back for caring.
And to all those women (me included in the mix), don’t beat yourself up. You are doing the best that you can.
Say Yes to what feels yummy, and no when it doesn’t. Pick good friends who will understand.
Hugs,
Asha